Sunday, September 6

Happy Special Day and best of luck with your 6th form :)

My wonderfully cute, adorable, lovely, smart, beautiful, erudite, linguistically gifted, pukish sense of humour girl

 

I miss you so much L I want to squish you hugely and cuddle you. Hope you had a good special day. Sorry wasn’t able to write earlier, the temperature and pain wasn’t condusive to writing properly. I will be going to the urologist and internal medicine doctor tomorrow so hopefully he can give me some antibiotics for whatever infection I have picked up. Also dropped the car off for the 20,000 km service. Its amazing how much I drive here compared to London. Anyway, they will check everything from spark plugs to the oil, brake pads to AC. Machines need to be looked after religiously. Serviced, checked, maintained and looked after at regular intervals. If you don’t, then they break when you least expect it and then its trouble. I know I am sounding like sheldon with Penny here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KMhp2ShPVQw.

 

I also had this great image which I keep on my desktop. It’s a great little cheatsheet for critical thinking. We have a problem these days with social media information and pretty much fake news all over the place. So you have two options, either you refuse to engage (which isnt possible mostly) or you do engage but at which level? Remember the Athenians who basically put forward the demos and democratic structures which we are still following in some shape or form. You may not like politics or public policy but politics and public policy is interested in you. So I always suggest engaging but you have to engage at two levels. First recognise that most news or even history is incomplete, disbalanced and biased (did you read the EH Carr book on “What is History?” which we have at home?). So that’s the first element and remember that most debates will be done at that level. People vote on that basis, people respond on that basis, etc. etc.

 

But when its you, a smart intelligent and erudite girl like you, you need to delve deeper into it. You cannot do that to all the stuff, especially when you have constant barrage of information on twitter, snapchat, youtube, etc. etc. but for substantive things, you have to have a filter, a methodology, something that allows you to check major developments. This can potentially help you, darling. Print it off and stick it on your wall in front of you. and on your desktop.

 

Anyway, I am so missing you. please take photos of your 6th form class/lounge and have a wonderful time. You are going to step over another huge milestone in your life, going to 6th form. Much will change, not least your uniform! Ask Dada for his advice, even though he didn’t do his 6th form at Nower Hill, he knows what worked and what didn’t. Anyway, take selfies and mamma will give you dahi chini before you leave.

 

Love you, Choti, best of luck

 

Yours lovingly

 

Baba