First go read this article.
This made me think about what is my opinion about the kids moving out after their university education. My first reaction was, I actually do not mind and actually would welcome both kids staying at home. As a matter of fact, if that means moving to a new house where both kids have their own rooms is also fine. As a matter of fact, I wouldn't even mind moving to a bigger home with apartments for the kids and their families with a communal living area. heh, the patriarch of the house with a big joint family, eh?
But seriously, i think the eldest has a good head on his shoulder, he wouldn't be a parasite, his mum has trained both kids to do chores and contribute to the household. They help out with the sorting of the clothes, the unloading of the dishwasher, they bring the newspaper, help water the plants when I am away during summer, help with the shopping, so not that they are spoilt or anything.
But I cannot imagine living without them at home. And after I finished my thought, I was missing my parents back in India, they do not have the luxury of living with their children. Sighs, not a good thing.